Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)


Most frequent questions and answers

A: An Alpha male is someone who exudes confidence, leadership, and charisma. To become an Alpha male, you need to work on your mindset, physique, communication skills, and social status. We will help you develop a strong sense of self-worth, overcome limiting beliefs, improve your fitness and style, and teach you how to attract and keep high-quality women.

A: Yes, anyone can become an Alpha male with the right mindset, skills, and dedication. It doesn't matter if you're introverted, shy, or inexperienced. We've helped men of all backgrounds and ages transform themselves into confident and successful Alpha males.

A: Some common mistakes that men make include being too needy, being too nice, being too passive, being too aggressive, and not having clear boundaries. We will teach you how to avoid these mistakes and how to approach women in a confident and attractive way.
A: Confidence comes from taking action, facing your fears, and building a strong sense of self-worth. We will help you identify and overcome your limiting beliefs, improve your body language, and teach you how to communicate assertively and effectively.
A: Communication is a crucial part of attracting women. We will teach you how to start and carry conversations, how to use humor and wit to connect with women, and how to read and respond to social cues. We will also teach you how to use texting and social media to your advantage.
A: Your appearance is a reflection of your personality and status. We will teach you how to dress to impress, how to choose clothes that flatter your body type, and how to develop your own unique style. We will also teach you how to groom yourself and how to take care of your skin and hair.
A: To attract high-quality women, you need to become a high-quality man. We will teach you how to develop your inner qualities, such as your integrity, ambition, and leadership skills. We will also teach you how to identify and approach women who share your values and interests.
A: Results vary depending on your starting point, your level of commitment, and your coachability. Some men see results within weeks, while others take several months. We will work with you to create a customized plan that fits your goals and timeline.
A: We understand that re-entering the dating scene can be intimidating. We will help you develop your social skills, improve your confidence, and stay up-to-date with the latest dating trends and technology.
A: We understand that not everyone is naturally outgoing or confident. We will help you build your social skills gradually, at a pace that's comfortable for you. We will also teach you how to leverage your introverted strengths, such as your ability to listen and observe.
A: We take a compassionate and non-judgmental approach to coaching. We understand that mental health issues can be challenging, and we will work with you to develop a personalized plan that takes your unique needs into account.
A: Rejection and disappointment are an inevitable part of dating and relationships. We will help you develop resilience and a growth mindset, so you can learn from setbacks and move forward with confidence.
A: Physical appearance is just one aspect of attraction. We will help you improve your grooming, fashion, and fitness, but we will also focus on developing your inner qualities, such as your confidence, humor, and intelligence.
A: We work with men of all ages, backgrounds, and relationship experience levels. Our clients are typically motivated, ambitious, and committed to improving themselves.
A: We focus on developing your inner qualities, such as confidence, leadership, and integrity, rather than just teaching you pick-up lines and tactics. We take a holistic approach to dating and relationships, addressing your mindset, physical appearance, communication skills, and social status.
A: This was a question I pondered quite a bit when I started out in 2010. Coming from a strict Asian background, having only engineer friends, never socialized during my college years, and only having one girlfriend up to the age of 22, I wondered whether pickup is something you can actually learn. After going out every weekend for 2 months straight, I started seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Fast forward many years later, 5000 approaches, 10 countries, 200 plus students, and hundreds of documented student pulls, I can confidently say the process works. You just have to put in the work.

A: Most people want to fix everything except social skills because they want to reduce the number of rejections before they even START. But the reality is rejections are inevitable and its not a big deal. If every girl liked every guy that went to talk to them, the world would be in overpopulation crisis. Instead, focus on the skill set and not the result or outcome. Take fitness for example. Working out and being physically sore has no impact on your verbal skills or practicing talking to people. At the end of the day, 90% of social game is just being in enough social situations and knowing what to do. It has nothing to do with your aesthetics. Most of these skill sets are complimentary and you want to work on them in parallel instead of one after another. If it takes you 2 years to get the muscles that you want and 2 years to learn pickup, doesn't it make sense to get both done in 2 years rather than doing it back to back and taking 4 years?

A: Most of my clients range from 28 to late 50's. The beautiful thing about this is that there is a diverse demographic of people in both geography and age. Because there are conventions, company events, high ticket sales, tables, and big spenders, it is not uncommon to see older men in clubs, and most women are accustomed to seeing this. If you are on the older side, play to your strengths, wear a suit, and play as the high-status male. It is also common to see young guys at the club as well, a lot of people come for their 21st birthday.

A: What's most important is what you do AFTER our programme, not before. You want to maintain what you've learned from Alpha Attraction Coaches and keep growing at the same level of trajectory. That's why there are follow up programmes to ensure you stay on track. As far as preparation before the coaching sessions, come well rested, have proper clothing attire, watch some documentaries on our Youtube channel and most importantly come with an open mind and be ready to learn. Do not over-stress by reading a lot of pickup materials before the programme! It is actually counter productive. You will learn everything in the "field".

Coaching is a big investment, and we want you to feel secure making it.

We offer the following refund policy and guarantee:

Decide within 48 hours of enrolling in coaching that you don't want to proceed?

Just email me, and I will give you a full refund, as long as you meet the following conditions:

  1. You've not started our online courses.
  2. You've not had your first live 1x1 coaching session in Zoom or in person.‍
  3. Basically, let's make sure our communication styles mesh during our breakthrough call before you sign up, not after!
  4. We can't give refunds after 48 hours under any circumstances.‍

This is because we deploy revenue from sales for things like content production, new projects, assistant's salary, and mortgage basically as soon as it comes in.

Also, spots are very limited, and taking on one client virtually always means turning someone else away.

Hope this gives you confidence in deciding whether to invest in coaching ❤️

One last thing...

Already think you might want a refund?‍

For example, you're super skeptical of whether we can help you, or the investment is a stretch for you financially, or you're the type of person who loves to take advantage of liberal return policies for shady reasons...

Please don't apply to work with us!

We've thankfully never had a refund request, but it would be expensive and depressing for us, so we absolutely DO NOT want your money if a refund is already on your mind!

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