Picture this: I’m at the airport, waiting for my flight, when I catch wind of a conversation between two guys.
“You know, the divorce rate is like 50% right now, that’s why I’d rather stay single,” one guy says to the other.
Now, I get it. The divorce rate is skyrocketing. People are tying the knot for the wrong reasons, rushing into things, or choosing partners who aren’t the right fit. But, my friend, let me tell you something important.
Just because the statistics are flashing warning signs doesn’t mean you should swear off relationships and embrace the single life indefinitely.
Why? Because a relationship isn’t a roll of the dice. It’s not a gamble with no control over the outcome. Your relationship is in your hands!
You have the power to shape who you are in a relationship, to conquer your fears, and to continuously better yourself. You can be intentional about who you choose as a life partner, define the dynamics of your relationship, and master the art of communication.
During those inevitable arguments, you can choose how to react. In times of conflict, you can decide how to resolve issues and build trust. These choices, my friend, are what set you apart.
Most people never consider the ongoing improvement of themselves, their marriages, or their communication with their partners. But not you. You’re here, reading this, actively seeking to enhance your dating life.
That’s huge!
So, when you look at the dismal divorce statistics, don’t be disheartened. Your awareness that a relationship isn’t meant to be perfect from the get-go is a game-changer. It’s not about finding perfection; it’s about constant self-improvement, shared efforts, and unwavering dedication.
Your life is a river, not stagnant water. It’s evolving, improving, and a work in progress. And guess what? I have faith that you’ll find someone who’s the perfect fit for you.
Even if it feels tough right now, don’t throw in the towel. Keep doing the right things, confront your fears head-on, and keep moving forward.
