As a dating coach, I often get asked, “Where should I take a woman on a first date?” And I understand why it’s a crucial question.
The place you choose can either make or break your first impression. Therefore, in this post, I’ll guide you on how to select the perfect first date spot and share some of my favorite first date activities.
The first thing you need to know is the goal of your first date. Since you’re romantically interested in her, your date should facilitate the following:
-Getting to know her
-Having fun
-Escalating the interaction if she meets your standards
If you don’t know her well, start with something quick and casual, so you’re not stuck on a long date with someone you don’t have chemistry with.
It’s best to have multiple spots/activities for your first date. This gives her the experience of multiple dates, and it takes some pressure off your shoulders if you’re worried about running out of things to say.
You should always plan logistics ahead of time. If the date is going well, it’s much easier to invite her over if the venue is reasonably close to your home.
Now, let me share some of my favorite first-date activities:
-Ice cream, walk in the park, drinks on the beach
-Arcade bar, lounge, ice cream
-Salsa classes, drinks at a lounge, another lounge closer to your place
-Dancing is a great activity as it allows you two to touch and get close.
Remember to do some searches on Google Maps and Yelp to come up with your own spots. Avoid choosing movies or dinners as they don’t allow you to talk and get to know her well. I hope this guide helps you choose the perfect spot for your first date!
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